- Kevin ball
- Dec 30, 2025
- 4 min read
Gratitude, giggles, and very full bellies marked our second Thanksgiving escape to Sneads Ferry, North Carolina, as the Bouncing Balls rolled back into town to “give thanks” with our coastal crew at Fulcher’s Landing.
“I am grateful for allowing my Sneads Ferry family to continue the tradition of ‘Giving Thanks’ for family and friends.” – Susan
Rolling back to Sneads Ferry, North Carolina
The Ball siblings—minus one (we’re looking at you, Edonn!) aimed Uncle Kevin’s “car house” south again for Thanksgiving, bound for Sneads Ferry to catch up with Joan Baxley, Christina Asbury, her husband, Ashley, and their son, the little big man himself, Lincoln, now 16 years old. Fulcher’s Landing RV Park once again became home base, tucked along the New River in this easygoing fishing town just north of Wilmington, North Carolina.
This year, we leveled up: our 2022 Thor Magnitude BT36 now has a sidekick, a 2015 Chevy Spark in tow, which meant quick zips to stores and family hangouts without booking rides from Uber. The tradeoff was a slightly spicier back‑in at the campground, but the freedom to roam without calling Uber made it more than worth a few extra “Left! No, your other left!” moments.
Bumps in the road, love in the details
The plan said “leave on Sunday, November 23rd,” but the Bouncing Balls never do anything without a little plot twist. Kevin hit some digestive turbulence before departure, and the “caring and love” portion of the trip kicked in immediately as everyone rallied around getting him back on track.
While Kevin was recovering, Susan got handed a delicious mission: cook up a potluck pot of collard greens with smoked turkey necks, slow‑cooked and seasoned with a ridiculous amount of love. By the time Kevin made it to Winston‑Salem, copilot Susan and Chingy, the 21‑year‑old chihuahua mascot who still runs the show, climbed aboard our RV headed east on I‑40, hearts full and appetites ready.
Family stopovers and old traditions
Of course, no Bouncing Ball's Thanksgiving road trip is complete without a family pit stop. The Ball's stopped in Durham, North Carolina, where the RV, proudly known to the kids as “Uncle Kevin’s car house” turned into a rolling reunion hall.
We got to hug our grand‑nieces and nephew Joy, Ella, and Winston, visit with our sister Edonn, catch up with our niece Lauren and her husband Donovan, and spend time with his parents Sheila and Harold Livingston. Having everyone together under one roof for the first time since our last big Family Thanksgiving in 2019 felt like hitting the pause button on life and soaking in all the good stuff at once.
Landing in Fulcher’s RV Park: blessings in the dark
By the time we rolled into Fulcher’s Landing, the sun had called it quits, and backing into our site felt like trying to park a cruise ship in a dark alley. Susan is steadily learning to be the eyes Kevin can’t see, calling distances and angles while both of them do the backup dance and hope nothing goes “crunch.”
Just when it looked like we were starring in our own RV blooper reel, a few full‑time residents appeared out of the darkness like campground superheroes, flashlights and hand signals at the ready. With their help, we slipped into the site without a scratch, and right then it was clear: we weren’t just visitors anymore, we were officially part of the Fulcher’s Landing family.
Friendsgiving, Tar Heel style
From that moment on, the vibe was simple: LOVE and GOOD times with a healthy side of “Do we really have room for more food?” Thanksgiving Day with Joan, at Christina and Ashley’s house, was a Tar Heel feast from start to finish, with a seriously local twist.
Christina and Ashley kicked off the morning with a duck hunt and then casually turned their harvest into stuffed duck breast appetizers like it was no big deal. Every dish on the table had that homemade magic, right down to the cranberry sauce, blending North Carolina comfort with family tradition and just enough chaos to feel like home.
Potluck dinner, oysters, and the Sous Chefs, Kevin and Susan
The days that followed were basically a food marathon disguised as socializing. First came the inaugural Fulcher’s Landing Thanksgiving potluck, where campers and residents circled up with dishes, stories, and plenty of “You have to try this!” moments. Between bites of grilled deer meat, fried turkey, and more sides than a buffet, invitations for “same time, next year?” started flying fast.
Then it was time for the Oyster bake and Scallop feast, where Kevin and Susan got promoted to sous chef under the command of executive chef Joan Baxley at her home. There was shucking, seasoning, laughing, and probably a little too much taste‑testing!
From Susan - A cactus, a community, and quiet gratitude
My heart if full knowing that I am now part of a remote community filled with good North Carolinians that are big on “Fellowship,” and for that I am extremely grateful to my brother and my newfound family in Sneed’s Ferry. On a more personal note, I have been given a White Dutchman’s Pipe Cactus to continue to grow from the original plant of our host, Christina Asbury's late mother. She is now home with me, planted with love, and I will nurture her to grow and flourish. To my pilot and brother Kevin, words can not express how grateful and fortunate I am to have you as my “Bro” you continue to make me feel that I am the luckiest sister to have a brother like you. I'm looking forward to our next adventure!




